It sounds like you’re dealing with something that almost every person on this planet has been through.
That doesn’t make it any less challenging or confusing though.
Trying to get affection from somebody is probably one of the hardest things to do, especially because there’s no way that you can force it. However, there are ways to appear more appealing to someone.
It sounds like you’re romantically interested in this girl. If that’s the case, appearance can play a very important factor. Try to dress nicely and carry yourself with confidence when you’re around her. Confidence is the main thing that draws people towards you. A confident person is a desirable person. Also a little tip is just to smell good! No girl wants to be near someone that smells bad.
On the other hand, personality plays an important factor too.
In no way am I saying that you should change yourself for anyone, because I honestly think being yourself is unique and really cool
However, you can try to find out what this girl values in a person in general! Does she value honesty? Maybe loyalty or a sense of humor? If so then you can try to be honest with her by telling her that her hair looks nice one day or try to crack a joke when you’re around her. These little things don’t force you to change who you are to make her like you, but it shows her that you’re trying to please her. On top of that, it never hurts to be nice to a girl. A simple act like opening the door for her can really impress her.
Another thing that is really important is just taking the initiative to get to know her.
Many people are not mind readers, so sometimes simply being straightforward can get you a long way. Maybe you can simply tell her “Hey I think you’re really awesome and I would love to get to know you. Let’s talk.” This would make her feel flattered and wanted, which may lead her to consider you as someone she wants in her life.
If you ever need to talk this out a little more, don’t be afraid to give us a call or chat with us! I hope this helps. Good luck with everything and go get her!